|They're going to say "He condemned a random terrorist for blowing up kids coming out of their first concert, but if they were American girls he would happily take away their health care, and their public safety, and their votes, and he would never understand the joy in these songs, and he would never be here himself tonight to dance, and if it were his kids he'd send a car service to pick them up. And so, at the worst moment just as at the best, he would not be there." And they know this about you, and no amount of bluster about freedom will make them forget that you're an abuser and a bad human who would pose with Sauron's glowing orb if you thought it would make Sauron like you. I don't even have kids and yet somehow I figured this out. If I could get kids to leave a midnight mass feeling like those kids leaving that concert felt, religion would be a totally different force in the world.